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The Role of Parents – Practical Do’s and Don’ts

 

Mathematics is the science of recognising, understanding, appreciating, creating and using patterns in day-to-day life, business, sciences, work life, and technology.

After exploring the emotional and cultural factors that shape a child's perception of mathematics in earlier posts, this one shares a clear, actionable framework—the Do’s and Don’ts for parents who genuinely want to help their children love math.

✅ The Do’s for Parents

  • Love your child unconditionally.

  • Let your child blossom into their own self; give space.

  • Understand that each child is unique; appreciate their uniqueness.

  • Develop a hopeful, long-term perspective toward life.

  • Help your child recover from low scores or stressful phases.

  • Spend informal time: talk, play, go on outings.

  • If your child struggles academically, explore where their true strengths lie.

  • Avoid over-pushing bright young kids. Often they perform well under pressure in early classes but gradually withdraw from self-study as they grow.

  • Assist in creating daily structure. Help develop a study routine with patience and consistency.

❌ The Don’ts for Parents

  • Never compare your child’s scores or habits with siblings or friends.

  • Never beat, yell, or punish them physically for academic reasons.

  • Avoid public reprimands. Would you like being scolded in front of colleagues?

  • Don’t expect your child to excel in everything—school, tuition, arts, sports. This leads to burnout and depression.

  • Avoid transactional parenting. Don’t tie love, rewards, or outings to academic performance.

  • Limit gadgets. Too many distractions derail routine and focus.

  • Don’t narrate your failures in maths. It seeds resignation. Your journey is different—don’t pass on the burden.

This post is a heartfelt request: become your child’s support system, not another source of pressure.
Let's nurture not just mathematical competence—but confidence.

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